Has there ever been a wedding

...where the vows were printed in the program and maybe even on a big screen where everyone could see, and then at the end the guests were told "and if you ever have evidence that either one of us is violating any of these vows, you now have the responsibility to lovingly confront us publicly, since we have made these vows publicly before you?"  I've never heard of that, but here's an equally radical first step to marriage counseling

I'd suggest that anyone wanting marital counseling first take out his/her wedding vows, and ask himself before God, with brutal honesty...