I'm so excited, but it's kinda silly. Brenda and I hardly ever go to movies or watch DVD's. Last weekend we finally watched Seabiscuit--we'd had it for months (borrowed from daughter). We sat on the sofa and snacked and snuggled. I loved it. Later, I asked her, would you rather go to a movie or watch at home? She said home; easier, more personal. Hmm...
So I went online and signed up with Netflix where we can pick movies online and they'll mail it to us. When we send it back they send the next one on our list. And I am so excited because I found Johnny Belinda which has been her favorite movie for so long, but I've never seen it (or even heard of it, except from her), and now it's on the way.
It's not exactly a romantic comedy chick-flick. I picture it wedging itself into her one afternoon on TV when she was 12 or so; what was going on that day? What was she thinking and feeling? Was she alone? Did she tell her sisters to shut up because they laughed at her tears? If she'd seen it a day earlier or later (or an hour), would it still have grabbed her like it did? Maybe it's not the thing, but how the thing makes you feel at that moment that burns it into your personality forever.
Even though we've been married 33 years, I feel like I'm going to learn something new about her when we see it.